Lessons in Transition

tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2333704148030523072012-01-04T13:07:51.592-08:00Lessons in TransitionThe Memoir of Cherie AmourCherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.comBlogger141100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-9694051877104409982009-06-08T19:39:00.000-07:002009-06-08T19:40:27.542-07:00Check out the NEW SITE : http://www.bycherieamour.com/

Hey Mi Amours!!!CHECK OUT THE NEW WEBSITE:http://www.bycherieamour.com/All my posts will now be posted straight to the new site and no longer on this site, hope you like the new one!!LEAVE ME A REPLY and let me know!!!http://www.bycherieamour.com/

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-21215726751597350082009-06-08T19:37:00.000-07:002009-06-08T19:39:40.476-07:00NEW SITE: http://www.bycherieamour.com/

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-3103037459690041562009-05-15T22:35:00.000-07:002009-05-15T23:28:15.762-07:00I love him...... but im not in love

For what feels like an eternity i've been trying to figure out what the difference is between loving someone (not your family or friends but your boyfriend or partner) and being in love with someone. How do you know when you love him/her but your no longer in love with that person? And if your not in love does that mean that you should just be friends?This is something i've been struggling with

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-38846692821553673762009-05-06T20:24:00.000-07:002009-05-06T21:26:06.252-07:00Money come, Money go......Money stay??

Money Money Money........this word is literally taking over my life! Have you wondered why o why it is that when you have no money you spend no money...... but yet as you start to earn money you somehow can NOT seem to keep any of it???!!! Am I just a bad saver or is there something else going on here??! (ok its takes a while to get to my point but keep reading and you will learn how to save

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-66442384881912101292009-05-06T19:11:00.000-07:002009-05-06T19:20:05.927-07:00Just a thought..... on how to break out!

Ok so what happens when your really wna leave but haven't got the strength to do it???What happens when your in that place where your caught between a rock and a hard place..... u don't want to stay because you know it could be better but you don't wana leave cos.... lets face it it could be worse! .... much worse..... what to do??This is a conundrum that I find myself in more often than i would

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-48145625855342348892009-04-27T12:44:00.000-07:002009-04-27T13:22:03.498-07:00The one

Ok so i was at the end of my tether again this weekend. My boyfriend/x-boyfriend/ unclassifiable other half and I have an extremely complicated relationship especially with me being overseas and all. So i was having a good old banter with "the wise one" aka mummy and we got onto the topic of relationships. Of course we didn't specifically talk about me and my other half, as its important to draw

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-68566709922752976842009-04-24T08:36:00.000-07:002009-04-24T08:39:15.976-07:00Hobson’s Choice: a fatal handgun or a fatal taser?

On Friday 24th April 2009 "The Afrospear" and "Electronic villiage" are setting aside a day for bloggers all over the world to stand up against the use of tasers, otherwise referred to by the NYPD as “Conducted Energy Devices (CED’s). To participate in this Day of Blogging for Justice: Standing Up Against the Police Pre-Trial Electrocution simply:1. Post a blog about outlining your concerns and

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-82204788232333103902009-04-21T11:48:00.001-07:002009-04-21T12:21:55.829-07:00When theres nothing but fear...........

I'm back...... back in that place of absolute despair, where there is no hope, no light and what seems to be no possibility for a better tomorrow. I thought I had escaped this bottomless pit of confusion and illness but it seems to have crept back to the forefront of my mind, taking over my every thought and feeling.Back at the end of last year I sank into what me and my friends call "a

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-46841638013214771962009-02-24T11:07:00.000-08:002009-02-24T11:27:36.712-08:00Boob jobs??

I just saw some pics of Christina Milian, her photoshoot for King magazine and I'm thinking... my gurl looks like shes had a boob job.I've always been against boob jobs cos I thought it was unnecessary and was put off by the fear that post-surgery, i may never know if a guy was interested in me or my assets...... However I am not a well endowed young lady. I did gymnastics 4 times a week until i

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-11387681998740792782009-02-24T07:38:00.000-08:002009-02-24T11:32:04.449-08:00Double friggin standards!!!

Ok, so its all getting better now. I have a job-ish and ma social life seems to be on the up but i was speaking to some guy the other day about open relationships... which i really do not understand!!You see, from what I can see, the problem is that the guy always has more freedom than the girl when it comes to these kind of relationships. He says "yea shes the one, u no the one that will be the

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-26512436389618247772009-02-20T16:58:00.000-08:002009-02-20T18:31:08.805-08:00How to keep your man...in line!

OK, so relationships are one of those things that I can't live with, can't live without. Now i'm still young so im not claiming to have any kind of super expert knowledge on relations but what i do know, and have come to know quite well, is how to keep your man in line. Originally I was the bitch from hell that all men were scared of! (lol, at least i think its funny) Then a few of ma gurlies

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-2144016901064254582009-02-18T08:29:00.000-08:002009-02-20T13:48:52.120-08:00Disparture - no its not a spelling mistake!

Ok. So i get it it was my choice to move out here and my decision to be away from my friends and family but this is really beginning to suck. Yes im bi-polar and just yesterday i was over excited and happy about my new life - full of enthusiasm and excitement and now im back to this depressive condition that is taking control of my mind, body and soul (It's emotional!)My problem is that i'm

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-72726238498818572472009-02-16T15:45:00.000-08:002009-02-18T14:10:37.553-08:00Sick of reality!!

Success is all around us, all of the time. Whether it be on the success of a friend or loved one or that gurl that went to your primary school who's now a millionaire *kmt* biatch! Anyhu in addition, to the pressure we have from everyday life there is the T.V. (something my mother calls the idiot box for all the right reasons). Anyways now-a-days or at least in the last five years no matter what

Cherie Amourhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01394460326848790241noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-233370414803052307.post-82051448905240753242009-02-16T14:49:00.000-08:002009-02-16T14:50:40.497-08:00Just Me

Ok, so I thought I should begin with breif introduction of myself. I'm 21 years old and just moved to New York from London - alone. Yes totally alone. No family, no friends.... I'm out of my comfort zone and feeling like i dashed myslef in at the deep end for what may be no apparent reason.I moved out here with an ambition, if u wna be romantic about it, a dream. My goal is to get a job in a law

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